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Do you feel heavy-hearted on your way to work these days?
There are times when you feel inexplicably discouraged by tasks you clearly used to handle well, wondering, "Am I really doing this right?"
'Declining self-esteem at work,' experienced by 7 out of 10 Korean office workers.
Today, for those of you exhausted from worrying about what others think, I introduce 8 'confidence recovery cheat codes' that you can use immediately in real-world situations.
We are always obsessed with perfect results (KPIs). However, confidence comes not from the result, but from 'control over the process.'
Before leaving work, try writing down three items on your 'Today's Completion List.' Even small things like "Completed one page of a report" or "Handled a client call kindly" are fine.The time you spend acknowledging yourself is the most important.
Before entering the meeting room, try standing in front of the bathroom mirror with your shoulders fully straight for just two minutes.
Slouching increases cortisol, a stress hormone.
A confident posture and a calm, trustworthy tone of voice not only turn on the other person but also turn on the confidence switch inside your brain.
Huge projects induce fear. Fear gnaws away at confidence.
Break down your tasks into 30-minute intervals.
Lower the level from 'writing a proposal' to 'creating an outline for the proposal.'
The joy of 'clearing' one by one becomes the strength to overcome a slump.
Stop the negative voice inside you that keeps whispering, "What if I make a mistake?" or "I am not good enough."
Believe in the power of affirmations. Consciously change your words to, "I have the ability to solve this problem," or "Today's learning is greater than yesterday's mistake."
Your brain begins to believe what you say.
When a problem arises, do not waste energy blaming your past self.
Write "Okay, what's the next step?" on a Post-it note and stick it on your monitor.
It serves as a trigger to shift your focus from 'past regrets' to 'future solutions.'
Create a 'Compliments Folder' in your inbox. Capture screenshots of brief encouragement from your boss, "Thank you" messages from colleagues, and satisfied customer reviews.
Simply opening this folder when your mental state is shaken recharges powerful energy.
Ultimately, the best self-esteem comes from competence.
It doesn't have to be grandiose studying.
Reading just one guide on how to use work-related tools or one industry newsletter is enough.
When you become 'a version of yourself who knows 1% more than yesterday,' feelings of inadequacy at work naturally disappear.
We sometimes fail at self-objectification. There are many times when we are the only ones thinking we are useless.
Try honestly asking for advice from a trustworthy supervisor or mentor. The question, "I want to improve this part; what do you think?" not only demonstrates your passion but also serves as an opportunity to receive warm confirmation that you are doing better than expected. Confidence is not something you are born with, but something you build like a habit. Try practicing just one of the eight things I shared today right now. You are a much better professional than you think!